Unlike the Secure Attacher who readily feel worthy of love, those with ambivalent attachment styles do not believe they are worthy of the love and the support of others unless they perform adequately to deserve that love.  Ambivalent attachers view others as safe and trustworthy to provide a safe haven for them, so they will…

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One of our deepest needs is to be loved.  Most of our conflicts in our attempts to be loved are problems with attachment, and the answer to our attachment problems is faith.  The Secure Attachment style will include a person who views themselves as worthy of love and capable of obtaining love.  Another attribute is…

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